Comments on: The Number One Problem in Marriage http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/ Biblical encouragement for building a successful Christian marriage Fri, 18 May 2012 07:42:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Save My Marriage http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-24946 Save My Marriage Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:34:49 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-24946 I was a very selfish person when I got married. I was the parasite and my wife was the giver. Eventually I realised that this imbalance cannot go on for long. I learnt to give. I am still not perfect. No one is. But God helps you to see love beyond your selfishness, that's when a marriage succeeds. I've experienced it - thanks to my lovely wife. And thanks to God. I was a very selfish person when I got married. I was the parasite and my wife was the giver.

Eventually I realised that this imbalance cannot go on for long. I learnt to give. I am still not perfect. No one is.

But God helps you to see love beyond your selfishness, that’s when a marriage succeeds.

I’ve experienced it - thanks to my lovely wife. And thanks to God.

]]> By: David http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-22149 David Sun, 02 Aug 2009 01:45:22 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-22149 I'm glad you're finding these articles beneficial Vickie. Keep working on what you can work on, which is yourself and how you react to your husband. Along with that, keep seeking God and Godly counsel. Will definitely pray for you and your family. God bless as well! I’m glad you’re finding these articles beneficial Vickie. Keep working on what you can work on, which is yourself and how you react to your husband. Along with that, keep seeking God and Godly counsel.

Will definitely pray for you and your family. God bless as well!

]]> By: Vickie http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-22128 Vickie Fri, 31 Jul 2009 23:51:19 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-22128 I'm really relieved that i found your website. My husband and I are going through a tough time right now and our biggist issues are quick tempers, anger, and lack of communication. I am not innocent in contributing to the arguements, but it's really hard to deal with when all he does is completely ignore me and completely distrust me and stay gone with his friends, and all he expects me to do is bow down to him and cater to his every need, without contributing to our relationship at all. I have read alot of your columns and they have really helped me to deal with some of these issues, but i am still a long ways away. Please help me to deal with this and pray for our family. GOD BLESS! I’m really relieved that i found your website. My husband and I are going through a tough time right now and our biggist issues are quick tempers, anger, and lack of communication. I am not innocent in contributing to the arguements, but it’s really hard to deal with when all he does is completely ignore me and completely distrust me and stay gone with his friends, and all he expects me to do is bow down to him and cater to his every need, without contributing to our relationship at all. I have read alot of your columns and they have really helped me to deal with some of these issues, but i am still a long ways away.

Please help me to deal with this and pray for our family. GOD BLESS!

]]> By: David http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15415 David Tue, 03 Feb 2009 15:56:05 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15415 Thanks for your interest Eric. I'm not sure what you're asking, but you should be able to find more information by searching around the blog. Thanks for your interest Eric. I’m not sure what you’re asking, but you should be able to find more information by searching around the blog.

]]> By: Eric http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15412 Eric Tue, 03 Feb 2009 11:14:44 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15412 Want to more of how marriage works. Want to more of how marriage works.

]]> By: Eric http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15411 Eric Tue, 03 Feb 2009 11:13:41 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-15411 I am interested in this topic, you send me your holy bible to understand more of GOD expectation for my life and follow his path way to fullfil HIS will in my life. I am interested in this topic, you send me your holy bible to understand more of GOD expectation for my life and follow his path way to fullfil HIS will in my life.

]]> By: David http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-14525 David Tue, 13 Jan 2009 23:36:26 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-14525 Continue to be an example of Christ's love and definitely hand them over to God. Will be praying for you. Continue to be an example of Christ’s love and definitely hand them over to God.

Will be praying for you.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-14257 Anonymous Fri, 09 Jan 2009 05:35:28 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/06/04/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage/#comment-14257 Awesome information and big eye opener in how i have been treated by family and allowing it to happen in my marriage, but praying that will not happen as my husband is not saved yet. Awesome information and big eye opener in how i have been treated by family and allowing it to happen in my marriage, but praying that will not happen as my husband is not saved yet.

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