Comments on: Manage those Emotions http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/08/31/manage-those-emotions/ Biblical encouragement for building a successful Christian marriage Fri, 18 May 2012 07:44:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: David http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/08/31/manage-those-emotions/#comment-2313 David Thu, 27 Sep 2007 02:40:16 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/08/31/manage-those-emotions/#comment-2313 Charity, I'm not sure if I understand your situation, but it sounds like you're saying that your husband has 2 wives. In Matthew 19 it states that divorce is allowable in the case of sexual immorality/marital unfaithfulness. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that divorce is required, but only telling you what the Bible says. It sounds like your husband is "having his cake and eating it too". Maybe he doesn't want you to decide for him, but you can certainly decide for you and your 2 children what steps to take. I'm not a professional counselor, pastor, or psychologist, but I would highly recommend seeking one out. You can check into Christian counselors through Focus on the Family at: http://listen.family.org/miscdaily/A000000115.cfm Take that step and be proactive about the situation. I hope that helps some. Charity,

I’m not sure if I understand your situation, but it sounds like you’re saying that your husband has 2 wives.

In Matthew 19 it states that divorce is allowable in the case of sexual immorality/marital unfaithfulness. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that divorce is required, but only telling you what the Bible says.

It sounds like your husband is “having his cake and eating it too”. Maybe he doesn’t want you to decide for him, but you can certainly decide for you and your 2 children what steps to take.

I’m not a professional counselor, pastor, or psychologist, but I would highly recommend seeking one out. You can check into Christian counselors through Focus on the Family at:
http://listen.family.org/miscdaily/A000000115.cfm

Take that step and be proactive about the situation.

I hope that helps some.

]]> By: charity http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/08/31/manage-those-emotions/#comment-2278 charity Tue, 25 Sep 2007 13:11:46 +0000 http://www.marriagevictory.com/2007/08/31/manage-those-emotions/#comment-2278 I have a question on divorce. I am a Christian but my husband is not yet saved. He is involved in adulterous affair for the past 6 years and they have a child together. Whenever i try to talk to him about this he is on the defensive, He hasn't left home and he says he has no intention of leaving and that i should not decide what to do for him. I have 2 children and another on the way. He does not want to use a condom. I only discovered that he married the woman in May this year. He married the woman in 2004. I am contemplating divorce. What should I do in this situation. Your help is most appreciated I have a question on divorce. I am a Christian but my husband is not yet saved. He is involved in adulterous affair for the past 6 years and they have a child together. Whenever i try to talk to him about this he is on the defensive, He hasn’t left home and he says he has no intention of leaving and that i should not decide what to do for him. I have 2 children and another on the way. He does not want to use a condom. I only discovered that he married the woman in May this year. He married the woman in 2004. I am contemplating divorce. What should I do in this situation. Your help is most appreciated

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